Why doesn’t someone reply to your WeChat? After understanding these psychology, no matter who you are, don’t bother anymore
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When we send WeChat to a person, of course, we hope to get a reply from this person. It is best if he responds in a timely manner, and is enthusiastic and patient.
In reality, there are bound to be some people who do this to you. Those who treat you like this undoubtedly care about you very much, and are worth having and cherishing.
But there are also some people who either take a long time to reply or never reply after seeing your WeChat message. And these people are often the people you care more about.
So, before you give up, you still think about texting them and waiting for their reply. A lot of times, stories tend to repeat themselves and you still don’t hear back from them.
Once, twice… Until the cycle is repeated many times, you finally realize that you are dispensable in their hearts after all, so they will not return your WeChat.
A person who really cares about you is very willing to communicate with you, including WeChat, and always enjoys it. As an adult, who doesn’t know that it’s rude not to reply to a message? In the face of your enthusiasm and value, who does not know that it is a kind of injury to you?
A person who does not reply to your WeChat often has these mentalities. After understanding, no matter who you are, please stop disturbing.
01 I think you are dispensable, too lazy to reply
A person who does not reply to your WeChat may not necessarily have any prejudice against you, but there is no doubt that in his heart, you are not that important.
It is undeniable that most people live relatively tired, so the best way to reduce stress for yourself is to reduce your life and free yourself from unnecessary social interaction and unnecessary interference.
Reflected on WeChat, they also don’t want others to disrupt the rhythm of their lives, and even in the face of messages from people they don’t think are important, they don’t even have the urge to glance at them.
So, have they thought about hurting you?
To be honest, they must have thought about it, but they wouldn’t take it to heart. In their eyes, you were originally dispensable, so why should you care about your thoughts?
At this point, even if you have too much incomprehension and unwillingness in your heart, you must recognize the fact that you think the other party is very important, but in the eyes of the other party, you are dispensable.
02 I’m afraid of being entangled in chatting by you and don’t want to reply
It is really hard for adults to work hard outside. The so-called survival is not easy, probably means that everyone pays a lot to realize their ideals.
If this is the case, you will surely understand.
However, you must have seen some people who have time to post on Moments, and they have time to jump around in your common group, but they haven’t responded to your WeChat.
Faced with this situation, it is often difficult for you to understand, are you so annoying? So much so that some people didn’t even reply to the “scenario talk” where they pretended to be polite and then quickly stopped chatting.
In fact, no response from adults is the best answer. They are worried that even if they just reply to you a scene, they will be pestered by you to chat and waste their time, so they simply do not reply.
If a person wants to chat with you, you send a WeChat message, and he will reply in seconds. He would rather chat in groups or send a circle of friends than reply to you, which shows that he really doesn’t want to chat with you.
At this time, you have to be funny, smile and laugh at yourself, and do whatever you need to do.
03 Missed the opportunity and thought it was unnecessary to reply
In this fast-paced modern society, many people are very busy. Some people don’t even have their mobile phones with them, or have them on them, and don’t have time to look at them for a few hours.
In this case, there is a good chance that they will miss your message. It should be said that after most people see your message, even if they don’t want to chat with you, they will reply to WeChat to explain it to you.
If it is someone who has you in his heart, in addition to explaining it to you, he will also find a topic to have a good chat with you. For these people, chatting with you is something you can’t ask for, and it’s a rare opportunity.
But there are also people who will not reply, because they think that if they miss the best time to reply, there is no need to reply.
If you miss the opportunity to not reply, in the end, it’s just that they don’t think you are worthy of their reply.
04 Final words:
To sum up, if a person does not reply to your WeChat, there is often only one explanation. You are not that important in his mind, but a dispensable existence, so he does not need to take into account your feelings or care at all. Your opinion.
Even sometimes, he doesn’t bother to find excuses to perfunctory you, prevaricate you, and simply ignore, ignore or block your WeChat.
If you find such a person, please turn around no matter what, there is no place for you in his world, if you are still madly in love with yourself, try your best to squeeze into his world, and in the end , will only squeeze himself to the brink of blood.
In our life, not all people need to be approached.
For some people who don’t like to see you, stay away to avoid harm.
Let it go and save yourself the last decency.